NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

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NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by Joshua Chen on 10th August 2010, 11:11 pm

多年来我发觉,
平辈沟通要达到和睦同居,合一同心相处,
所需的性格内涵修养是最深的!
所需的人情世顾、人际关系技术,也是最高的!
但是我们籍着平辈相交,会结出很多圣灵的果子,
籍着平辈相交,在歌林多前书13章所讲爱这奇妙之道上,
我们因此也会行得完全。
原因是因为平辈相交是最难的!由其是高标准成熟既领袖层面上,
领袖对下面跟从者的和睦相处是最易的!
因为跟从者是会敬爱包忍和受教顺服於好的领袖,
对上是再难些,因为领袖会改正你,管教你,
鞭策你,要你负责任,给压力你,但好的跟从者已经预备好。
但平辈相交,要和睦同居、彼此顺服、看别人比自己强、彼此学习,
不单顾自己既事、彼此帮助扶持、舍己爱人,是不容易的!
因为一般人看平辈对方是差不多,各有所长,大家都是平等,
容易轻看了对方,甚至不尊重、不服对方、
不听对方讲、不了解体谅对方,产生很多磨擦和纠纷,
但麻麻牧师的直属对一就做得非常好,很成熟,立下一个好榜样,
其实当中是有很多道理、原则和性格内涵是我们要学习的!
这条路是不容易行的!是需要你真正谦卑和死,
真正在基督的爱上成熟长大,真正切实地去爱人,但是非常值得的。
既然有价值,
所以日后在此我会与大家分享下我一些心得和心路历程,
大家亦可借此平台分享和交流一下。

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Re: NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by Michelle Tan on 29th August 2010, 2:02 am

I've attempted to translate the 华文 version to 英国历史. Hope it will be of much help!
Any errors or lousy translation, please feel free to point it out. Or leave a message so I can edit. Hehe! Thanks!


Over the years, I've come to realise that if we want to communicate peacefully & harmoniously with people of the same age or about the same age as us, it would require a lot of character building! It would also require a lot of experience and people relation skills!

However, because of the fact that we're of about the same age, if we can achieve living peacefully & harmoniously together, we will be able to harvest the many fruits of our labour based on the blessings of 1st Corinthians 13.

Why would we be so blessed? It is because getting along with people of the same age group is the most difficult! This is especially on the higher levels, whereby leaders have high expectations to fulfill and are also more mature.

Having a good relationship between leader and follower is the easiest! It's because a follower would be very willing to respect, love and accept a good leader. Being a disciple might be a little tougher; your leader will correct you, discipline you, encourage, make you learn how to take responsibilty, pressurize you. But a good follower would have already been well-prepared for this training.

A relationship between people in the same age group however requires living in harmony; accepting one another; seeing others becoming spiritually stronger than you are; learning from one another; caring for others and not just for yourself; helping one another; sacrificing oneself for other; those tasks are not easy! It's because we see people of the same age group as people who are about the same as us, each with our own talents. We see each other as equals so we tend to underestimate or look down on others, or even showing disrespect, unhappiness, not listening to others, not showing understanding for other's feelings or thoughts, creating conflicts and arguments among each other.

However, our pastor have been setting a very good example by having a mature relationship with his follow-up disciple. Behind this, there are a lot of truth, wisdom & character training which we should all learn from.

This is not an easy path! You must really be willing to be humble and put yourself down, you must really grow and mature in God's love, you must love others truly and honestly, for all these are worth it!

Because it has value and rewards, therefore I will share my experiences and the lessons which I've learnt with everyone. We can all use this platform to share and interact with everyone!
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Re: NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by chenky on 11th September 2010, 11:57 pm

hahaha lol nice
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Re: NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by HweeYing on 12th September 2010, 1:10 am


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Re: NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by fangyi on 12th September 2010, 3:32 am

WAH MICHELLE DONT SO POWER LEYYYY Very Happy

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Re: NEHEMIAH (邵傳威 Z-1) 002 平輩相交

Post by Nissi Chen on 28th September 2010, 11:27 am

Very Happy

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